Patching your theme up
Just edit your theme's xfwm4/themerc and add frame_border_top=<X> to it somewhere. Replace the <X> with the number of pixels that is to be considered as the border on top of the frame of course, which will depend on your theme.
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echo "frame_border_top=<X>" >> /usr/share/themes/<theme-name>/xfwm4/themerc
This feature will be available in XFCE 4.14.